Monday, October 23, 2023

Precious week of visitors!!

After worrying that illness would crash our plans, we were able to welcome my Great Aunt Eleanor back for another nearly week long stint at Tangly Woods. And this time we were in for a triple treat in that one of her granddaughters (who is also my dear friend and second cousin) and her son were able to overlap visits. Mom and Dad were enjoying wild, wonderful West Virginia for a week and so the upstairs was freed up for a week of hosting. We did our meals all together outside for the first few days in case any virus germs were lingering, but then were grateful to have the flexibility and warmth of gathering inside or outside for the second half of our time together. We were thankful for some beautiful fall days and the official return of "soup season!" 

Aunt Eleanor was such a good sport joining us outside for meals AND soccer games! Thankfully we have plenty of blankets!
I don't think I can do a better job describing the week with words than these pictures can do. In summary the days together were full of laughter, sweet times of connecting, good conversation, delicious foods, a shadow puppet show, chicken training and nonstop fun and play for the kids! 
With our kids at the age where they can mostly fend for themselves AND love playing together, Colette and I got to enjoy not one but two hikes on the mountain together. It's a unique gift for me to have someone who has some shared family history/heritage with me and with whom I share so many interests and who is navigating some of the same kinds of life challenges and blessings and who shares a posture of curiosity towards the world and is always learning and growing and sometimes unlearning. It was such precious time together!!
During the week, I would pop upstairs to check on my aunt and we kinda have a running joke of me snapping pictures of her without her knowing it. There wasn't much chance of her catching me while snoozing! 
I also got a funny series of pictures of the three of us together. There's not one where we are all smiling at the camera. This was partly because Aunt Eleanor was trying to figure out how we were taking a picture of ourselves and seeing ourselves on the phone screen. 
Smack dab in the middle of our week together was Terah's 8th birthday (post on that forthcoming!). So they got in on some of the fun birthday celebrations and Terah got a long spread out week of celebrations. She was ok "sharing" her birthday with others as long as we could have a "fake birthday" with just the 5 of us! 😉 Her main birthday meal was on the eve of her birth (right around the time 8 years before when I realized I was probably in labor). Jonathan, Christen and Luca were able to join us around the outdoor fire for a feast of roasted chicken, mashed potatoes, roasted sweet potatoes, green beans with garlic, fresh sweet peppers and we topped off the meal with s'mores and ice cream cones! Luca helped with scaring the chickens away from the picnic table (I'm so glad he is no longer scared of chickens, and seems to get great satisfaction from realizing that they are actually scared of him if he runs towards them). 
Then the next morning the final chain of her birthday loop came down! And we feasted again, this time on birthday quiches and funny cake pie! Our baby is officially 8!!
After soccer games in the evening, we enjoyed her birthday cupcakes and spent awhile looking at baby Terah videos (and gushing!).
We enjoyed a meander around the land the next day to check on the rapidly growing baby chicks, as well as the rest of the chickens. The gnats were making their presence known (in a most annoying way), but Colette and Aunt Eleanor discovered that leaning against a tree trunk somehow seemed to make them go elsewhere. Good to know!
On our last night all together, the three kiddos treated us to a shadow puppet show. They had worked on it for hours each day. The show was super fun, but I think even they might agree that the whole process leading up to the show was equally or even more fun than the show itself. 
The end of the visits came so fast! Now we are dreaming of a visit to their home in the spring!

A sampling of land and garden updates

Since I mentioned the frost in the last update, I thought I'd give a few end of the growing season updates, including preparations for our first freeze - the final harvests, cover cropping and tucking in gardens for the winter. There's still more to be done and I made the unwise move of looking at our 2022 calendar last evening when Jason and I were already mostly spent for the day. Our first frost was 2 weeks earlier last year so after a quick glance over things I felt about 2 weeks behind on all the things that will need to be done in the coming days/weeks. I'm glad Jason can be mostly focused on the home front for a little stretch here. 

When I last wrote, I was home from a concert due to Terah being sick. Unlike the previous cold that made its way through most of us over the course of a few weeks, this one was quick and really only impacted Terah. She missed out on much of a family gardening day, but even felt good enough (thanks medicine!) to come out for a bit of the sweet potato digging and a little tree climbing. I was gearing up for a lot of logistical rearranging and some sad cancellations when it became apparent that this particular virus was gonna exit about as fast as it arrived. 

So here's a smattering of updates from the land in no particular order! 

We did round 1 of our PA Dutch Squash harvest when the first frost threatened (but didn't materialize).
We also got in all the mature Trombone Squash. We are still VERY impressed by this plant! I just cut one open recently from LAST year and it was solid all the way through with nice plump seeds (the flavor was lacking in sweetness after sitting in our root cellar for over a year, but we aren't holding that against it).
It's always fun to download photos from Jason's phone and see what strikes his fancy. He gets the credit for these perky little barley plants coming up. Most of the fall cover cropping is in as of dark last evening, but there will still be the final section of the pig paddocks to plant in rye once we get them moved to their winter quarters. Jason spent much of a day with our neighbor getting the new hog panels welded and ready to make their corral in the dryland garden. 
While we've been mostly focused outside, there's been some seed processing happening inside in the nooks and crannies of the days. Here Jason is showing the impressive variation in two types of buckwheat grown this year. 
And here he is showing off some dry beans. We can give thanks to his dear friend Craig for many of these photos, as they are often taken with the intention of shooting a text off to him with a seed breeding thought or challenge or excitement or...
We waited just as long as we could (until this past weekend) to harvest all the corn. It could have used a bit more time, but had we left it in the field much longer the chipmunks would have stolen (I can call it that, right??) even more of the girls' popcorn. 
We had a lunch picnic on the corn harvesting day and the row of raspberries, muscadine grapes, last cherry tomatoes, jujubes and kiwis I harvested that morning made me very happy! 
We've been savoring roasted delicata squash, while simultaneously testing them to see which we want to keep seeds from for next year's planting. We are not breeding for triplet squashes, but we did get one this year. We are starting in on our taste testing much earlier this year and there have been some winners. I do think I found one that must have crossed with something else (a gourd?) as I cannot cut it with our sharpest butcher knife.
This year prior to digging the sweet potatoes and after we had gotten any of the growing tips of the vines for our own eating, we cut out the vines and gave the pigs a hearty helping (a couple wheelbarrow loads) daily until they were used up. I absolutely love taking weeds and vegetable matter we aren't using to our piggies. 
Our sweet potato harvest was much less than other years (they had a slow and rough start, along with a few groundhog visits), but way better than the white potatoes. We will still have lots of bushels of delicious tubers to take us through the winter.
The food processing has slowed down (right as the milk supply has picked up, so I've got my first cheddar in months going today). It's down to drying paprika peppers, cutting up the last of the sweet peppers and using up some immature winter squash in whatever creative ways I can. Oh, I guess we are going to a neighbor's farm today to get several bushes of broccoli and cabbage so there may be some broccoli freezing and sauerkraut making in my future!
Even after this freeze, we'll still have a smattering of fruits to harvest. The kiwis are almost done 😢 but there are still lots of persimmons and jujubes on the tree and the white raspberries look like they'll give us a few more flushes of fruit (especially since we'll be in the high 70's much of the rest of this week). 
Jason bought a new ladder for his business but it has already earned its keep along the front walk. For those that do not know the story of our jujube tree pictured here: There was a beautiful large tree beside the front walk of our first basement apartment on Hamlet Dr. We didn't know what it was at the time but it dropped these interesting little fruits on our sidewalk in the fall. When we purchased our first home on Wolfe St, I was pregnant with Kali and we dug up a little shoot of this tree and planted it at a baby blessing event with friends and family after Kali's birth. Then when we moved to Fruit Farm Lane we dug that little tree up and planted it in our front flowerbed. Now 18 years later, it drops its interesting fruits (which we now know by name) on our walkway just like it did at our first apartment. And this year there is a bumper crop AND the fun of climbing high to harvest it!

It could also be a bumper crop of black walnuts this year too, if we had the time/energy to make use of them all. We were going to let them go entirely but we had a family competition (friendly and more or less collaborative) to see how many buckets we could fill in 10 (or was it 15) minutes. We now have 8 5-gallon buckets of black walnuts waiting to be processed...
Our home is full of marigold bouquets right now. It was VERY hard to cut up these plants still full of buds and blossoms. But after harvesting more seed than we could ever plant, we chopped them up for mulch to make way for seeding the winter wheat. Jason was away working that day, so it was a Tangly Woods' gals' gardening afternoon. We chopped up LOTS of plant material and got the tomato trellising disassembled and stored away in the "wire yard." Yep, we were kinda proud of ourselves!!
Jason has done most of the actual cover cropping (other than me helping the some peas/wheat last night when we were racing the sun). Here he's getting our fall spinach seeded where the sweet peppers and mahon yams were.
Much more could be said about this, but that gives you/us an idea of what we've been up to. And to end, can you tell I just do not tire of the mountain in our backdrop and the way the clouds change its appearance so much from day to day?! 

Soccer season coming to a close

I'm gonna tackle the scrapbook catch up by topic today rather than chronologically because my brain is all over the place and there have been so many things woven throughout our days in the last 2 weeks. Some of the mental and emotional backdrop of these posts is wondering how to integrate our beautiful experiences of celebration and connection and family, not to mention safety and having all our basic needs met, with the extreme violence and trauma that many are experiencing around the world, but particularly in the Middle East. My heart breaks for a friend who lost touch with her family in Gaza many days ago, and I feel so angry for the media portrayals of what it happening (negating the humanity of millions, among other things)! I'm thankful to those who have lived experience and connections in the region who are willing to share that, as well as bringing it home to those of us who live in this colonized land - if you have instagram, I recommend this silverrunforestfarm post for starters!

SO...life gives so many opportunities to hold multiple seemingly conflicting things in our hands and hearts simultaneously...still not a pro at that myself!

The girls were at Ivy's for a sleepover last night (a belated celebration with them of Terah turning 8!) as Jason and I scurried around until dark (and a bit after) getting ready somewhat frantically for the first frost of the year. We got it (the frost) and were mostly ready (phew)! 

I've seen some pictures as proof of the fun our kiddos are having. Sadly, Jason and I were not able to soak up much time together this particular kiddo-free stint since Jason was taking off before 5 a.m. this morning to make his way into DC for a grain conference. I am hoping he is making good connections and enjoying himself today, and I feel certain from the updates already that he won't be getting any ideas that city living might suit him better than our little rural spot!! While he navigated (only somewhat successfully) the DC metro system, I enjoyed morning chores in the crisp autumn air!
It's good Jason made it to the soccer games on Terah's birthday since it ended up being the only games he made it to this season. Between the fall crunch and needing to have someone at home in the evening on predator watch with chickens free ranging, the stars just didn't align. But he made good use of the games he was at and took MANY photographs. So photo credits to him for the smattering I picked out to share here. The night he was with us, we also had the pleasure of having my great aunt, second cousin and her son with us on the sidelines (more on that in another post!). Tonight will be the last games of this season and, while I think we all might appreciate some easing of our evening schedules, I know the girls are gonna miss playing. Alida and Terah have LOVED the season, and I think Kali has enjoyed coaching well enough (she's a bit less effusive about it than they are about playing!). I think I've been pretty good about not been too obnoxious on the sidelines, though Alida still tells me I'm loud. I aim to follow Kali's tip of avoiding verbs (so as to not "coach") and I also try to just sit back and enjoy it, but it's hard for me to not be expressive about that enjoyment. 

As long as the kids are having fun, I really don't have other priorities for them playing soccer. They clearly find it to be joyful movement (while exhausting) and a fun way to interact with their peers. However, I have had some moments of awe in seeing Alida's footwork and the power of her body to propel the ball from one end of the field to the other. She would cream me in one-on-one soccer at this point. The other night we were on time for her practice and her coach was delayed by 10-15 minutes. I made a rash decision to place myself in the goal so the girls could start practicing by shooting on goal. What was I thinking? I was a tad sore the next day (clearly, I needed a full body suit to protect me from their shots).
Alida has enjoyed a combination of positions this fall, including giving goalie a try a few times. I think the main attraction there is getting to punt the ball a lot!

At Terah's age, we still affectionately call the sport "bunch ball" and it's so cute to see the kids all jumping up and down to be chosen for each throw in or corner kick or kick off. 
It's getting dark earlier and earlier as well as colder and colder on the sidelines! Tonight, Terah's team will have the honor of playing under the new lights for the first time (and last time) this season. I know they will likely want me to sign them up for the spring season just as soon as it is possible to do so. Alida officially "ages out" since you need to be 12 on April 1 and she turns 13 just a handful of days before that. But it looks like there will be enough wiggle room on the dates for her to enjoy one more season with Harrisonburg Parks and Rec and then we'll have to make a decision about where to from there! 

But first, I'm looking forward to the longer, darker, colder fall/winter evenings by the wood stove. Then I'll be ready to welcome spring again!